{"id":4274,"date":"2024-05-31T15:57:12","date_gmt":"2024-05-31T10:27:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/whimsical-azure-python.68-178-174-68.cpanel.site\/ajays\/blog\/?p=4274"},"modified":"2024-05-31T15:57:14","modified_gmt":"2024-05-31T10:27:14","slug":"red-flags-in-friendship-the-ultimate-guide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ajays.co.in\/blog\/red-flags-in-friendship-the-ultimate-guide\/","title":{"rendered":"Red flags in friendship: The Ultimate Guide"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Alexa, please play dost dost na raha!<\/em><\/p>\n

That\u2019s our writer, he just had a friendship break up because he compiled a list of red flags to spot in friends. And guess what, out of the seven red flags on the list, his friend ticked 6!<\/p>\n

While we comfort him with some cold coffee and a barbeque burger to cheer him up, why don\u2019t you go through this list below and see if any of your so-called friends check this list?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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  1. Their first response is always a NO\n <\/a><\/li>\n
  2. Never respond or react to your memes\n <\/a><\/li>\n
  3. They think cold coffee is a childish drink\n <\/a><\/li>\n
  4. They never pay their share after outings\n <\/a><\/li>\n
  5. They keep saying \u201cBas 5 minutes mein pohoncha!\u201d\n <\/a><\/li>\n
  6. Can’t keep a secret\n <\/a><\/li>\n
  7. Chooses other burgers over Ajay’s<\/a><\/li>\n
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    This is the easiest and one of the first red flags to identify in a friend. Inke NAA mein aur HAA mein, dono mein NAA hi hai<\/em>. Whether it is to bunk classes to watch a movie, plan a midnight birthday surprise for someone or simply hang out at Ajay’s Cafe<\/a><\/strong> after college, their first answer is always a no. They agree only when a lot of people give them bhaav<\/em>, try and convince them and make them feel they’re like some superstar. The only time their first response is a YES is when you offer them fries!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    It is an unsaid rule of friendship in the digital age, that one must at least use a crying-with-laughter emoji when a friend sends a reel or a meme on Instagram. Who are hese psychopaths jo seen pe chhod dete hai<\/em> memes ko yar<\/em>! Never trust people who claim to be your friends and do not respond or react to your memes. So what if they had seen the same meme just an hour ago on some meme page on Instagram?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    They think cold coffee is a childish drink\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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    If your friend says no to ordering cold coffee, it is fine. No kalesh<\/em>, everyone has their choice. But if they then make you feel bad about it \u2013 then you must doubt if they’re actually your friend, yaa iske bheje mein koi<\/em> chemical locha hai<\/em>? There is nothing childish about cold coffee<\/a><\/strong>. Drag that friend to Ajay’s and make them try the Classic Cold Coffee. Deewana ho jayega<\/em>! If they still think cold coffee is childish hai, we request you don’t go full Prajakta Koli from Mismatched from them. Bas apni thandi<\/em> cold coffee se cool down your anger!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    They never pay their share after outings\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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    Nobody likes a mufti! And we have noticed from behind the counters of our Ajay’s Cafes, that there’s always that one fellow who will be the first one to order and the last one to pay their share of the total bill. Keep an eye out for such friends. They are probably hanging out with you because you always pay for their burgers, box cricket and even chai at the tapri below your office. We’re in the age of UPI, it hardly takes a few seconds to pay that \u20b9100 no!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    They keep saying \u201cBas 5 minutes mein pohoncha!\u201d\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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    Have you ever wondered why \u2018that one friend\u2019 from the group is never on time? This person always arrives after the teams for the box cricket match are decided and always shows up after everyone has given their orders. And worse, he reaches the theatre much after the movie has started. And their bahanas<\/em>? The cat fell sick, the neighbour’s house had no water, there was no fuel in the scooter and whatnot. Maybe, just maybe, the so-called friend never wanted to hang out with you all and was coming late on purpose. Spot this red flag and cut it off if you can.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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