{"id":3648,"date":"2024-05-15T16:01:13","date_gmt":"2024-05-15T10:31:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/whimsical-azure-python.68-178-174-68.cpanel.site\/ajays\/blog\/?p=3648"},"modified":"2024-05-16T10:35:39","modified_gmt":"2024-05-16T05:05:39","slug":"how-to-get-girlfriend-in-india-ultimate-guide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ajays.co.in\/blog\/how-to-get-girlfriend-in-india-ultimate-guide\/","title":{"rendered":"How to get a girlfriend in India: The Ultimate Guide"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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It is said that all you need is love, but nobody told us how difficult, wait, almost impossible it is to find this “love”. We are a country that grew up on a steady diet of cheesy Bollywood romances. Everyone believes that they too will find the Simran to their Raj. And even though girls have shown absolutely no interest in you, your already single sidekick keeps your hope up by telling you that uski naa mein bhi haa hai (there’s a hidden YES in her NO). Don’t fall for all this. Our team of researchers (who might be single too… but that’s beside the point) have come up with this foolproof checklist of how to get a girlfriend in India and take her out on a cold coffee date. Why a cold coffee<\/strong> date, you ask? Now, you can\u2019t take a girl out to a tapri to impress her, would you?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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  1. Identify places to meet your potential match<\/a><\/li>\n \t
  2. Dress for the date you want<\/a><\/li>\n \t
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  5. Ditch those cheesy lines<\/a><\/li>\n \t
  6. Remember, love is a journey<\/a><\/li>\n \t
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    Now that you have decided that you\u2019re no longer going to be single or the topic of many \u201csingle hi marega tu\u201d jokes by your committed friends, the first step to getting a girlfriend is to identify where you can meet the girl of your dreams (or anyone who\u2019d remotely show interest in you).<\/p>\n

    Now, these places could either be your office, your classroom, the gym, a friend or a family member’s wedding. And if none of these places helps, there\u2019s always the good ol\u2019 dating apps like Tinder and Bumble.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    Get active at these places and showcase your personality, because that is one of the most attractive qualities a guy could have. Your clothes, the vehicle you drive and everything else comes secondary. But, make sure you don\u2019t cross the line of being creepy. Itna aasaan thodi hai, dost?<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    Once you have identified the spots where you could meet your potential girlfriend, you must look the part as well. Well, learn from the OG Chocolate Boy of Bollywood, Shahid Kapoor, you have to stand out from the crowd to get her to notice you.<\/p>\n

    Dress well, dress for the occasion and dress with the trends. Basically, don\u2019t step out wearing an un-ironed shirt. Do not wear a hoodie to an engagement party and definitely ditch wearing those acid-wash jeans with anything, they\u2019re so last decade. Remember, you want to be charming like Bunny from Yeh Jawani Hai Deewani and not Suri from Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    While we are all for confidence and going out and speaking to the girl you like to make an impression, we don\u2019t want your sorry single self to crash and burn if she says no to your face. Hence here\u2019s some advice, find common points of interest to initiate a soft conversation and then maybe turn up the game. Another easy and safe way to form a connection is to find common people between you. Remember, if there was no Anjali, then Rahul wouldn\u2019t have made an impression on Tina in Kuch Kuch Hota Hai.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    Keep your enemies close, but friends who can help you meet girls? CLOSER \n<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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    Common friends help make an introduction, maybe put in a good word about you to the girl you like and even help break the ice by creating situations to meet and interact. Basically, we\u2019re telling you to find the cheese that brings the bun and patty together to form the best burger<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    Once you have made contact, there\u2019s no backing down. You have to up your game and be on your feet all the time, to ensure that the spark doesn\u2019t die down after the initial conversation.<\/p>

    And this is possible when you have enough knowledge about what she likes, what she doesn\u2019t, what are the things that excite her, what kind of music she listens to, which movies she watches and which foods get her drooling. For example, if she loves to watch Brooklyn 99, listens to Rahat Fateh Ali Khan and never says no to pizza, you know your next conversation can revolve around which Haloween Heist was the best, if Rahat Fateh Ali Khan should feature again on Coke Studio and which places in your city serves the best pizza<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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    Ditch those cheesy lines<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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    Okay, let\u2019s get this straight. Cheese is the best thing when it is melted and on pizza and in burgers or inside wraps. Definitely NOT ON PICK UP LINES.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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